Whats d right way???

There are lots of things that lots of people say about life…”Its not a bed of roses “, “Its unexpected”,”its beautiful”….they are all different but they are all right in their own ways ….

But the real point is not what life is but how you take what life gives to you….there are options…always…either you can fight the conditions and keep fighting till you get what you think you really want…or you can adjust to the conditions and make your present a better place and think about your future with a positive mindset..but this option does not guarantee that you would get what you thnk you want …it may also mean that after sometime probably you r so adjusted that you don’t want to shift out of your comfort zone…

So what should one do? get used to your surroundings or try harder each day to change your surrounding ??? whats the right thing …what’s the right way???

The same thing in a different way is taught to us during gwoeing up…should we be polite and adjust with whats being given or stand up and demand what we need even to the extent of being rude at times…

This time I am just confused so am asking whats the right thing to do???

Make the small things count

All of us in this race of life to achieve the best grades , the best job, the promotions forget to notice that the little things that made all this happen should  be given credit to.

The grades would not have been achieved had it not been for the good professors, interesting lectures and even more interesting notes of the studious people in the college which were so vital for us to pass. The job would not have been achieved if we did not have the wishes of all the near and dear ones and also the support of our friends who provided us all that we need just in time for the interview .And the promotion would not have been yours had your team not worked well with you.

Every little step we take towards our goals should be recognised and valued by us. We would never be able to achieve the big goals if we forget the small ones. Make the small things count, cherish those little moments of joy, and preserve the memories of those light hearted conversations with your friends which take our stress away. These things are vital for us to grow and make it large in life.

When all is going wrong just one little something can make you feel good about the whole thing….when you are thinking that nothing is getting sorted out and life has become too complicated to handle ,if at that time just one thing turns in your favour you get the confidence to set the other things in order yourself.

After all the puzzle is only solved when you put all the small pieces in place to make the bigger picture. A sad and gloomy day can be turned into a cheerful day just by a simple smile from a stranger.