Fear as we know it!!

Life shows you different phases, different situations, relations and lots more...its the same for everyone but for the way we deal with them ...and for more than a a few most of us the four letter word “FEAR” changes the way we deal with life, people, situations, fights, makeups....the list goes on....

We always end up saying in a philosophical mood “Life’s very complicated’ ...but somewhere inside we all know that its our fear that makes our lives complicated.....we give it different names but it is actually the different forms of the same fear.....the fear of dying, the fear of losing someone precious, the fear of upsetting your loved ones, the fear of not being successful......there are many shapes but the basic structure remains the same....fear conquers all at some point of time and those who conquered fear life becomes simple ...yes it remains hard but then the complications seem to die down....

When we were kids, we feared that somebody would take our toys...the ghost stories used to scare the hell out of us....when we were teenagers our fears grew bigger...would we pass?? would somebody take away our crushesJ ??? we always feared that something bad is around the corner....entering into family mode gives our fears a wider touch...we are afraid not only for ourselves but people we love.......if i say something that i don’t feel good about ,would he leave me??? What would happen to me?? Are the questions all of us ask....

Fear is not all that bad ...it gives the energy to move forward ...the will power to work for better things...to reach and aim for bigger goals...but then as the wise men have said that too much of anything is bad.....our mind generate our fears... our mind is our greatest friends if we control it but it become or greatest enemy if we get controlled by it.....the fear of losing friends leads us to all the things that a relation should not be based on.....we lie, we crib but we do not have the courage of saying the truth in the face of the friend....and we cover it by saying that we don’t want hurt his / her feelings..but what we don’t realise that not saying it that time.. we r not being true to our friend also..

We have to achieve the right balance so that we can take fear also in our stride and make it work in our favour..so that ghosts dun scare us anymore ..Next time..when u r afraid..just let all the inhibitions drop and LET GO !!!! J